Straight guys turn gay

Can Straight Guys Turn

I guys being a curious kid, looking up "girls kissing girls" on YouTube for reasons I couldn't explain at the time. I even put socks in my underwear to feel what having a bulge would be like. But even then, labels never felt right.

I resonate with both non-binary and gender fluid, but I don't wear either one loudly. I let folks say what they say — but know that I know who I am. It resonated deeply, but I still didn't know if I should claim it.

The dialogue centers around a person who recently developed feelings for someone whose sexual orientation is unclear. I started leaning into the lesbian label more. I could accept "bi" easier because of my religious trauma and internalized homophobia.

I'm curious how many straight men would become gay if they could and how many would choose to stay straight, and why (For the record, I'm totally okay with being gay, this is just a curiosity.) Edit: To be clear, if you turn gay then you would be attracted to men, so how you currently feel towards men would change from what it is now.

Still, from then through junior year, I hid behind fake profiles to talk to girls online. By continuing to use our site, you agree to our Privacy Policy and Terms of Use. I grew up in a religious Christian straight. A couple of years later, I learned about the term non-binary, and that hit, too.

That helped me get more comfortable with who I was. I don't correct people all the time. But I was still convinced I was gay. Eventually, I joined a lesbian iMessage group chat. A recent conversation among people on forums has sparked interest regarding the possibility of turning someone from straight to gay, focusing on the dynamics of personal relationships.

As a queer man in a turn, my college career was straight men trying to explain away their queer tendencies as jokes and misunderstandings. I went through a phase where I did claim it. After high school, I considered that maybe I was bi. That might've been my only exposure, and even that wasn't intentional.

Very telling. That's when a friend introduced me to the term gender fluid. I wasn't exposed to queerness, except maybe a scene from The Color Purple where Celie and Shug kissed — and even then, my mom would skip that part, though I'd already seen it once on my own.

The Context Behind the Curiosity The discussion began when an individual expressed their. I had my first crush at the age of five; in 8th grade, I had my first girlfriend. I wasn't ready to call myself a lesbian yet. I genuinely liked them and caught feelings for them.

It was after someone in a chat asked me if I was a boy or a girl, and I answered, "Both. I even explored a bit myself, kissing a couple of girls while playing house, and I was always the boyfriend. I wrote a whole explanation on my Instagram Close Friends story, breaking down my pronouns and why I identified as non-binary.